Dear My Sweetie Girls and Respected Men

Dear my sweetie girl,

I am happy you can survive until you’re here now, in this world, at this time

To read my pleasuring words and some advices

How is your day today?

Does it running smoothly, or are you trying hard to face a trial from your Lord?

How about your emaan?

Is it looking great and nice as nice as your beautiful face?

Do you take good care of it as you take care of your face so that it’ll be glitter all the day?

I hope you can do well..

You’re very lucky..

Because Allah has chosen you to live in this world

And let you choose whether to obey Him or not so you’ll be granted with the Firdausi.

Have you ever wonder how the Paradise will be look like?

I don’t know how to imagine the Paradise too..

But have you looking at the blue sky?

Or evergreen trees there?

Or have you ever sit in a beautiful garden before?

Did you feel the pleasures? Does it make you feel happy?

You have ever felt that feeling right? We feel bless..

But the Paradise is better than that..(waaaa…feel amazed)

So what you need to do next so that you can return back to your Home safely?

Recheck your ibadah..recheck your aurah..

Does it becoming better than yesterday?

Have you improved them so that it improves your attitudes?

Or does your body is covered perfectly so that no men will notice your aurah?

My sweet little sister..woman is a secret..that’s why Allah told you to cover it

If you expose your body, then there is no secret anymore

If you have trying hard to make it better, then Alhamdulillah..

May Allah bless you all days and nights so that He will grant you with Paradise.

If not, then improved that my dear sister.

Improved them every day, every hour and every second

Because you deserve it

Allah will not let you have a perfect body part, a beautiful facial and a silky hair so that you’ll expose them

Allah wants you to cover them and to let you perform the prayer properly and comfortably

So that you can make good deeds to yourself and others

Because He can take the gift anytime He wants and you have no right to blame Him

If someone is trying to love you and give you a perfect gift,

Do you want to blame him and avoid him?

No my dear, we need to appreciate them.

And of course, that's why we must obey Allah

He lets you live in His temporary world

He gave you a heart to feel the love

He gave you a brilliant mind to think

He gave you perfect hands to touch

And He gave you dainty fingers to hold

He gave you everything you need..

And what’s next?

You want to turn away from Him?

Don’t be too rude to admit you are a grateful slave.

Do your responsibility; obey Allah and follow Rasulullah

For Allah, whose your life is in His hand,

Please do your duty because we don’t know when we’ll die..

And you the respected man, I would like to tell you,

You’re the leader, dai’e, ‘project manager’ and ‘the programmer’

You must manage and being responsible to what have been responsible to you

You can change a woman to be the best woman in the world or you can damage her attitude totally

As long as she is yours or she is under your responsibility

You can advice her when she is not covering her aurah properly

Or she is not obeying the Shari’a

Because this is your responsibility..

I repeat, this is your responsibility - of course after being a good Moslem

If your mother, wife and sister or any Moslem girl is not covering her aurah,

They’ll blame you in front of Allah in The Judgment day.

Because you have been given a right powers to advice them

If you’re not leading based on Islamic ways, you’ll be control by them

I’m not lying.

This is true.

The Prophet has told before, woman is a trial to a man

That’s why he told you to be kind to them

Means, you must being gentle to them while advising and taking care of a woman

Because you’re a husband, a son, a brother and a great leader..